B is for Bobby.........

My Bobby and I

           Bobby aka Bob is my hubby.  We were married on 11-24-2006.  It has been a wonderful marriage.  I just want everyone to know what a hard working, dependable, smart, and reliable husband that I have.   He makes me laugh all the time.  He has such a zany sense of humor.  He is generous(almost to a fault) and loves to help people.  It was late in life when we met.  I was 35 and he was 43.  Until I met, I didn't think that I wanted to get married.  I was truly content being single, then this wonderful man came into my life and turned it topsy-turvy.  We have had our struggles and still do.   He is not perfect and neither am I,  but I would not change my life for all the wealth in the world.     I cannot imagine my life without him and I pray that we have many more years together.
           In this present society, I hear a lot of  "men-bashing" and it makes me sick.   I have a good man and I want all to know it.  I'm sure that there are many other fine men out there that work hard and provide for their families.  As wives, I believe that we should do all we can to encourage and life up our husbands instead of tearing them down.   I thank God that He provided me with a good husband.  Ladies,  have you thanked your honeys lately for all they do for you and your family.  I know its easy to nag about undone chores and unpaid bills, but take a moment and tell your husband what he means to you.   We are not promised tomorrow!!!

Summer Plans......

It's that time again.  Road trips, day trips, outing with friends and family, It's summer time.  This is usually the time that families plan and go on vacations.   Since Bob and I don't have kids, our vacations have been when and wherever.  However, this summer we will NOT be taking any trips,  since Bob is still looking for a full time job. No job means No vacation.  The one advantage of him not working as many hours is that I get to spend more time with him, thus always a reason for vacations.  The last little vacation was the bowling trip that we had already paid for before Bob lost his job.  Don't get me wrong, I AM NOT complaining.  Vacations  are luxuries and not a necessity.   If you get the privilege of taking a vacation this summer,  I would love to hear about it. If not a vacation, what are your summer plans? 

My plans are to volunteer with the Big Brother/ Big Sister Program, clean my house, utilize our pool( the apartment complex-not ours personally), read more and try to start writing a novel.

Have a great and wonderful weekend!!!!